Growing up, I was raised with a specific roadmap to success: attend university, secure a job in your chosen field, get married, buy a house, and start a family. This trajectory was ingrained in me by my parents and the high school counselor as the key to a fulfilling life. In 2016, as I wrapped up my second year in biomedical engineering at the University of Guelph, I was diligently following this path.
After unsuccessful attempts to land engineering summer jobs in Ontario, I unexpectedly found myself working at a horseback trail riding outfit in Banff National Park. While this opportunity diverged from my planned route to success, my childhood experience riding horses on our family farm in southern Ontario assured me of my capability to excel in this role.
In Banff, I immersed myself in exploring the rugged Rockies on horseback, fulfilling my childhood dream of riding in the mountains. Guiding guests through pine-filled forests, driving horse teams along the Bow River, and leading visitors to elk-filled wildflower meadows became part of my daily experiences.
I discovered that a fulfilling life doesn’t necessarily entail being confined to a desk or climbing the corporate ladder. To me, it now means cherishing simple moments like a tranquil morning before a busy day or finding gratitude in the beauty of our surroundings, even during a long, rainy workday.
Seasonal work introduced me to a diverse array of remarkable individuals. I encountered peers in their late twenties taking career breaks, international travelers funding their adventures through seasonal jobs, and full-time seasonal workers transitioning between summer and winter roles. These friendships reshaped my perception of a fulfilling life.
The bonds formed during my time as a trail guide were unlike any others I had experienced in school or during my desk job. Living, working, and sharing meals with colleagues around the clock for months created deep and enduring connections.
While bidding farewell to these friends after intense months was emotionally challenging, I wouldn’t trade these experiences. They taught me that success can be achieved through various paths and emphasized the importance of surrounding oneself with positive influences.
My journey led me to work at another ranch in Cranbrook, B.C., after completing my engineering degree, reigniting my passion for the cowgirl lifestyle. Although this choice initially puzzled my family, they eventually recognized the value of my diverse experiences in exploring Canada and fostering lasting friendships.
Currently employed in international sales, a role that allows me to continue traveling and exploring the world, I credit my seasonal work background for instilling the confidence to pursue this path. While I cherish my current job, there are moments when I yearn to return to the mountains and horses for a simpler existence.
The past version of myself would have been disheartened by my divergence from the engineering field. However, present me is content for following my dreams and crafting a life I adore. These experiences have reshaped my perspective on success and taught me to embrace new opportunities, explore, and savor life to the fullest.